The Cultural Entrepreneur's Journey: Lessons in Brilliance and Birthright
In the sacred space where cultural wisdom meets entrepreneurial vision, profound truths emerge about who we are and who we're becoming. As cultural explorers navigating the complex terrain of building purpose-driven enterprises, we carry within us the responsibility to reclaim narratives that honor our full brilliance—not just the sanitized versions that make others comfortable, but the raw, authentic stories that celebrate our integrated intelligence.
The entrepreneurial journey, much like the cultural landscapes we study, reveals patterns of power, behavior, and transformation that demand our attention. When we approach business building through a cultural anthropology lens, we begin to see the deeper currents that shape our experiences and the experiences of those around us.
Thirteen Years of Building: The Lessons That Shaped Us
When I first built KDPMGroup's @thesuccesssystem_ and @sistertalkgroup_, I was still working full time in Corporate. Both purpose brands are over 13 years old. As we continue to evolve and dream bigger with our @sistertalkgroup_ eco-system partners, building our EQ certification program and our first AI powered EQ coach, here are some of the biggest lessons learned:
✨ The entrepreneurial space (like the workplace) carries some of the biggest and meanest bullies and behaviors disguised as mentorship in women's groups. The mean woman syndrome in these spaces disguised as politeness and advancing women must be studied. This cultural phenomenon reveals itself in subtle exclusions, performative allyship, and the weaponization of "support" as a means of control. As cultural scientists, we must name these patterns and create alternative frameworks for authentic collaboration.
✨ Some people will talk a good game and take you for granted. Some will offer empty platitudes without actual support that will shift you forward. Watch out for those energy mongers. These interactions represent cultural exchanges where value is extracted without reciprocity—a dynamic that mirrors historical patterns of exploitation that we, as cultural explorers, must learn to recognize and redirect.
✨ Pour into the connections that feed your soul. Make discernment a skillset. Don't mistake proximity or empty platitudes from successful people or people who've been there from the beginning as a sign of support. Watch how people treat you after they've extracted whatever they needed from you and how they treat people without a "title." This is where our cultural intelligence becomes our greatest asset—the ability to read beyond surface presentations to understand authentic intention and character.
Reclaiming Your Space in the Cultural Narrative
That being said, take up space! Write the most enchanting story on your journey of dreaming bigger. Be present enough to enjoy the journey. Dress for it. Dress your thoughts. Your mood. Your vibe. Trust the flow.
The unfolding of the dream is also your gift—a portal to witness who you are becoming and who you have always been. In cultural anthropology, we understand that identity is both constructed and discovered, both inherited and created. Your entrepreneurial journey becomes a site of cultural production where you're not just building a business, but actively participating in the creation of new cultural possibilities.
Remember you are the sun. The vision given to you is your North Star. Focus on being present as you build and notice whose support actually builds you forward versus those riding your energetic coattails. This solar metaphor speaks to the inherent power and brilliance that exists within each cultural explorer—a light that doesn't need external validation to shine, but that naturally attracts those who are meant to orbit within your sphere of influence.
✨ Write stories that remind you of your birthright. This is perhaps the most crucial aspect of our work as cultural entrepreneurs. Our birthright isn't just individual success—it's the reclamation of narratives that have been distorted, the celebration of intelligence that has been marginalized, and the creation of spaces where our full humanity can flourish.
A Call to Cultural Exploration
The intersection of cultural science and entrepreneurship offers us a unique vantage point from which to understand and transform the systems we operate within. When we approach our business building through the lens of cultural anthropology, we're not just creating enterprises—we're participating in cultural change, challenging existing paradigms, and modeling new ways of being in relationship with our work and with each other.
Your journey as an entrepreneur is also your journey as a cultural explorer, documenting and transforming the landscapes you encounter. Every challenge faced, every boundary crossed, every story reclaimed contributes to a larger cultural narrative about what's possible when we honor our integrated intelligence and refuse to diminish our brilliance to make others comfortable.
The path forward requires discernment, courage, and an unwavering commitment to your own cultural truth. It demands that we become fluent in reading the subtle languages of power, support, and authentic connection. Most importantly, it calls us to remember that we are not just building businesses—we are actively participating in the creation of more equitable, more authentic, more brilliant cultural futures.
Ready to join a community of cultural explorers who understand that business building is cultural work? Ready to develop your discernment skills and learn to recognize authentic support from energy extraction? Ready to write stories that celebrate your full brilliance and reclaim narratives that honor your birthright?
Sign up now to become a Cultural Explorer and join our community of purpose-driven entrepreneurs who are transforming business through the lens of cultural intelligence. Together, we'll navigate the complexities of building enterprises that honor our integrated intelligence and create space for our full brilliance to shine.
LOVE, Karlyn